Maintain effective social relationships

To maintain social relationships, people put aside their desire and need to focus their attention on others. Relationships are about give and take, a balance needs to be made. People often without thinking of this balance, the bar, the relationship that ties the broken ties. In that case, the relationship requires active attention. If you are interested in maintaining effective relationships, you can use it to consider tools.



Frequent contact. If you are unable to contact you, most likely as a result, the loss of your relationship, relationships, and your partner will lose focus on what you need.

 Listen actively. When communicating with others, they pay careful attention to what you are saying. Many people are not really as they are being told what drier, listen passively. Instead of falling into this trap, you have fully understood the message to ensure that other people are saying in your head, do not paraphrase.

Your appreciation. Maintaining the health of your relationship can go a long way, "Thank you." Do not assume that the other person knows what you are grateful for in your relationship. Instead, thanks to you, showing the value of the other person, often.
 
 Productively deal with conflict. You can not always avoid conflict, but you can not always deal with them in a productive manner. Instead of allowing the conflict to end the relationship, and turn them into opportunities for learning. Away from each conflict Take a good idea how to avoid this problem in the future. If you get into a fight about a breakdown of communication, for example, if you think about what happened and try to put into making sure it does not happen again.